{"id":10709,"date":"2016-09-25T10:50:52","date_gmt":"2016-09-25T15:50:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/?p=10709"},"modified":"2016-09-25T10:50:56","modified_gmt":"2016-09-25T15:50:56","slug":"dudes-viral-post-yes-i-am-racist-but-im-not-evil-im-just-primed-for-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/dudes-viral-post-yes-i-am-racist-but-im-not-evil-im-just-primed-for-change\/","title":{"rendered":"Dude&#8217;s viral post: yes, I am racist \u2013\u00a0but I&#8217;m not evil, I&#8217;m just primed for change"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In an <a href=\"https:\/\/beyondtheglasswall.wordpress.com\/2016\/07\/12\/why-im-a-racist\/\">essay gone viral<\/a> that reminds me a lot of <a href=\"http:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/peggy-mcintoshs-extraordinary-essay-on-what-it-means-to-possess-white-privilege\/\">Peggy McIntosh&#8217;s legendary ownership statement about white privilege<\/a>, Jeff Cook explains that racism was incorporated into the Wheaties he eat for breakfast every day in white suburban America. But, he says, this involuntary programming makes him not evil, but definitely ready for change. <\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a great essay, full of keen insights into both the writer&#8217;s mind and the society in which we live. Well worth the read. Here&#8217;s an excerpt:<figure id=\"attachment_10710\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10710\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/dudes-viral-post-yes-i-am-racist-but-im-not-evil-im-just-primed-for-change\/jeff-cook-and-family\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-10710\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jeff-Cook-and-family-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Jeff Cook and Family\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" class=\"size-large wp-image-10710\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jeff-Cook-and-family-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jeff-Cook-and-family-225x225.jpg 225w, https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jeff-Cook-and-family-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jeff-Cook-and-family-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jeff-Cook-and-family.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10710\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Source: beyondtheglasswall blog<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I lived a life marked by opportunity and forgiveness; and while I may not have always had \u201cmuch,\u201d I have always had the benefit of the doubt.<br \/>\nIt is okay for me to admit this.  It doesn\u2019t make me evil. It makes me ready for change. This admission took two things: research and honesty.  Over the last couple of years, I have read, watched, listened to and participated in countless discussions on the topic coming from a broad range of sources.  Through this process I was able to realize the aforementioned realities. Which is great for me, but for purposes of this post, let\u2019s unpack them a little.<\/p>\n<p>I am uncomfortable with racial inequalities that exist in my country.<\/p>\n<p>I live my life day in and day out and only rarely am I forced to confront these realities. Certainly the media, social and otherwise, shine a light on the issue, but that is not what I mean.  Reading a powerful blog post or an inspiring tweet does not constitute confronting anything.  What I mean is that when I get pulled over, shop in a store, go for a job interview, meet a new person for the first time, etc&#8230; I expect to be judged by who I am.  <\/p>\n<p>Yes, I am tattooed and bearded so I\u2019m sure that on occasion someone generalizes about me, but I don\u2019t worry about it because I know that once they get to know me they will move beyond those judgements. And I assume that they will eventually get to know me, because even with their judgement, they will give me the benefit of the doubt.  I live my life benefiting from other people\u2019s glass walls.  That is simply not true for people of color.  They are forced to confront it every single day.  Perhaps not in an overtly bigoted and hateful way (although I\u2019m sure that happens too), but in the \u201cdeficit of the doubt.\u201d  <\/p>\n<p>I live my life benefiting from other people\u2019s glass walls. That is simply not true for people of color&#8230;.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/beyondtheglasswall.wordpress.com\/2016\/07\/12\/why-im-a-racist\/\">Read full essay<\/a> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In an essay gone viral that reminds me a lot of Peggy McIntosh&#8217;s legendary ownership statement about white privilege, Jeff Cook explains that racism was incorporated into the Wheaties he eat for breakfast every day in white suburban America. But, he says, this involuntary programming makes him not evil, but definitely ready for change. It&#8217;s &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/dudes-viral-post-yes-i-am-racist-but-im-not-evil-im-just-primed-for-change\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Dude&#8217;s viral post: yes, I am racist \u2013\u00a0but I&#8217;m not evil, I&#8217;m just primed for change&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":28,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1,1082,563,160],"tags":[2363,1040],"class_list":["post-10709","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-all","category-dei","category-justice","category-news-truths","tag-change","tag-racist"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10709","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/28"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10709"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10709\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10717,"href":"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10709\/revisions\/10717"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10709"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10709"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thewei.com\/kimi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10709"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}